I am looking for some one who is independent yet will still ask for a hand when needed I want someone whom is comfortable in something to the effect of Jeans-t-shirt, sweatshirt or flannel as well dress up for the occasion. You must be a casual person with a sense of humor. Must be able to dish it out as well as take it. Having an opinion of your own is also extremely important although you must be able to actually listen to another persons and actually take it in not just in one ear and out the other. Both people have to contribute. It's important to have great conversations but have great chemistry too.